36 pages · A4 and US Letter included · English · Instant digital download
A gentle printable guide for gathering letters, photographs, notes and meaningful keepsakes into a personal archive for the people you love.
The Tender Archive helps you choose the pieces of your life you would like others to find, understand and keep. Rather than asking you to document everything, it offers a calm, practical way to begin with what is already close at hand: a letter, photograph, handwritten recipe, card, familiar object or another piece whose story might otherwise be lost.
Begin with one envelope, folder or small box and allow the archive to take shape gradually.
Begin: decide who the archive is for and what you hope it will hold
Prepare: choose one manageable place to start
Gather: notice the words, photographs and objects that speak of you
Sort: explore the people, places, routines and experiences held within them
Choose: decide what to keep, preserve another way or let go
Label: record the stories and context someone else may not know
Group: bring connected pieces together
Share: record where the archive is kept and who it is intended for
You will receive one ZIP folder containing:
one 36-page A4 PDF in English;
one 36-page US Letter PDF in English.
Each PDF includes:
reflective prompts and practical guidance;
gathering lists for handwriting, photographs, objects and keepsakes;
guidance for choosing, organising and caring for the collection;
printable story cards for words, photographs and objects;
printable group cards and cover notes;
an archive-details page;
a printable archive index.
Download and open the ZIP folder, then choose the PDF that matches your printer paper.
You do not need to print both versions.
Use the pages in order or move between them as your archive develops. Print the complete guide or only the pages you need. You may write, type, dictate your thoughts or ask someone you trust to help.
The Tender Archive is for anyone who wants to preserve a meaningful selection of personal stories and belongings without undertaking a complete memoir, scrapbook or large organising project.
It may be especially helpful when time, energy or emotional capacity is limited.
This is an instant digital download. No physical guide, folder, archive box, photographs or objects will be sent.
Both versions are designed for home printing. Colours may vary between screens and printers.
For personal use only. The files may not be shared, resold, redistributed, copied for others or used commercially.
Creation note: The Tender Archive was conceived, designed and edited by Hay & Moon. AI was used as a supportive writing and editing tool; the concept, structure, design and final creative decisions are my own.
The Tender Archive offers reflective and practical guidance. It is not professional archival, conservation, psychological, therapeutic, legal or medical advice.
A gentle, one-to-one package for people who would like support creating their Tender Archive but feel unsure where to begin, how to choose what matters or how to bring everything together.
The package includes three online 60-minute working sessions over four to six weeks, allowing time to gather, reflect and make decisions between meetings.
Clarify who the archive is for, choose a manageable scope and identify the first pieces to gather.
Look through what has been gathered, decide which pieces carry meaning and begin recording the stories that may not be visible without explanation.
Group and label the chosen pieces, complete the cover note and index, and make a clear plan for storing, sharing or passing on the archive.
After each session you receive a brief written summary of what was decided, and one or two manageable next steps.
After purchasing, you will receive a personal email from me within one working day, with a private link to schedule your session.
The package is intended for one contained archive, rather than clearing an entire home or cataloguing a lifetime of possessions. It does not include professional conservation, valuation, legal advice, extensive scanning or complete administrative organisation.
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